I don’t know how to get past cheating...I have no trust anymore and quite honestly I’m upset I put myself in this position! It’s my first relationship and we were virgins so the fact that she lost her virginity to someone else is really pissing me off and I can’t get past it...and now it’s like she wants to be “friends”....any advice please?
16 days ago
Re: How to regain trust
Quite frankly, i feel you. Expectations are one of the most complex ideas i can think about. Just know that your expectations were not the same as the other person. Trust is extremely important, so its very understandable for you to feel the way you do, especially if you regarded losing your virginity as a milestone. Know that what happened to you, although incorrect, has happened to many people, and part of getting over it means trying to understand your circumstance in particular and have like minded friends (ie not someone who did not respect trust) around you who can support you and help you understand how to avoid something similar in the future. Wishing you the best!