I have been seeing someone for about half a year. When I met ‘A’, she is married and struggling and at her lowest having been in a relationship that is not healthy for her. She has been separated from her husband for around a year and awaiting to settle things legally now. She has confided in me that she felt that I have been supportive and that she would want us to be happy and have expressed that she see a future with us together. Recently, i find myself not feeling anything during the times we meet..no excitement, no anxiety, just like it is a routine.It got me thinking could it be i was overloaded with trying to be present and understanding that it took a toll out of me.Recently i find myself being physically attracted to someone i see at work. We are not in the same department but i do bump into her once in awhile. I feel there is an energy/ an attraction between us but we have never spoken to each other. I know she is attached and I am too. But i find myself thinking of her more than ‘A’. I feel kind of messed up as i should not be thinking of her but at the same time, the energy of the pull is something different. What should i do to stop thinking of her and try to make it work with ‘A’?