AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend after I met up with my bossI know it sounds crazy but hear me out. Also this is my first time creating a post on here so bare with me. A few weeks ago my boss (M33) was trying to get ahold of me (F19) through social media because I don’t have chime which is what they use. At first I was creeped out because I thought it was a fake account plus I’ve never had a conversation with him at work EVER. He’s my bosses boss so he’s in a way higher position than me. Well a few days after he contacted me on social media I responded asking who it was just to make sure it was him. Which it was. So from there he was saying that he had needed my help with some stuff at work but couldn’t get ahold of me but that he figured it out. He then apologized and said he knows it was unprofessional. So I told him it’s ok I just didn’t know if it was really him right. We were communicating for maybe 5 minutes then he gave me his number saying he doesn’t use social media only his number or chime. One thing led to another and we text everyday and talk everyday we also flirt a lot. Calling each other baby, love, babygirl, all that type of stuff and just honestly flirting. When I told him my age he was skeptical because I’m way younger than him but I assured him we can just be friends and not date or anything you know. Which he’s fine with !! So I obviously have a boyfriend (M20) and he loves me so much and anyone and everyone can see it. The problem with us is that I’ve tried to break up with him multiple times and he genuinely won’t let me. Last time I tried to he came to my house (I live with my parents) while I was sleep and my parents were gone, he got the spare key and unlocked the door and came into my room. Which really freaked me out of course. So I told him he had to leave and he wouldn’t. He was just saying that he needs me and wants to be with me and a lot of other stuff and he wouldn’t leave. This is just background information so you can see it’s a pattern not just a one time thing. So fast forward to last night, he was trying to come over to my house and I repeatedly said no. That I didn’t want him to come over, I told him in a very nice way so he wouldn’t be upset. He continued to keep texting and calling me asking and I told him no I’m about to do schoolwork I need to focus on that, which I didn’t I just didn’t want to see him. Then he wouldn’t stop calling my phone so I told him I was on the phone with my sister, again, I really wasn’t. He CONTINUED to blow my phone up calling me about 40 times and texting me probably double that. So I finally just stopped responding and turned my phone on do not disturb. Okay this is where I’m pretty sure I’m the asshole. So At this point I’m sitting in the car with my boss outside my house but not parked right in front so nobody could see who I was with right. Well me and him were JUST talking and getting to know each other better and just genuinely having some deep conversations. We called it a night after about an hour. He came and opened my door for me and I gave him a hug and then I kissed him. Which I shouldn’t have done I admit. But it just kind of happened, it wasn’t a passionate kiss with tongue and all of that, just a peck on the lips. Anyways, I said my goodbyes and headed back towards my house, which I left unlocked because I didn’t take my key with me to the car. And mind you I’m still getting calls and texts from my boyfriend. Also, nobody is home except me and my friend who stays in the guest room across the hall from me. So I get in the house and go to my room, I open the door and my boyfriend is laying on the bed!! I told him that he needs to leave. Which he responded he wouldn’t leave until I talked to him. He would not leave, so I told him again that he needs to go and that we are done for good. I told him I don’t want a relationship with him or even a friendship and that he needs to leave right now. I told him how I’ve really been feeling in the relationship and that I don’t even have feelings for him anymore. I’ve been feeling like this for months but me talking with my boss has made me really put my foot down and tell him I’m done for good. Ik this post is probably a mess and all over the place but I need to know if I’m the asshole. Also this story is 100% true and I have nobody to tell because I can’t go around telling people that I spend time and flirt with my boss outside of work and that I even kissed him.