My mother is 61 years and almost never tries to do anything for herself. Anything new she expects her children to do for her. She needs to open an account?We should do it for her. She forgot her password?We should know/save it for her.Official documents of any kind come in?We should read them and respond for her.She almost makes it seem like she can't do anything for herself. Won't even bother to read to find out what needs to be done before passing it on to one of us. We try to teach her but her mindset is pretty much why learn when she can get someone else to do it for her.Honestly, I'm getting sick and tired of it because how long does she plan to live her life like this? What if we all die before she does? Then what? Does she stop living?She was already married to a man for almost 30 years who she let rule her life and who used and abused her constantly. To be honest I'm still surprised that she actually divorced him. But what, you leave him and then try to find someone else to take over everything again? The almost 30 years of abuse weren't enough? You don't plan to do anything for yourself????I am just so tired of it all.