sexual attraction and romantic attraction are two separate things! to me, it sounds like you're a homoromantic bi (or pan)sexual. it's perfectly normal to feel this way. my mom is a panromantic heterosexual woman, something she only figured out through talking to me. she's had romantic relationships and feelings for women before, but never wanted to sleep with them. in my case, i say that i'm a lesbian, but in reality i'm more of a panromantic homosexual, meaning i could be in a romantic relationship with a man, but i have absolutely no sexual interest or desire towards them. there's no need to put a label on it, just rock it!