It pisses me off when my wife calls me names. I don't call her name's, and when I say anything, "She's just kidding" makes me wanna die. I have tried to do everything I can to make things work, but have gotten to the point where I don't care much about anything. Why should I put in an effort when I get belittled or not shown the same intimacy or love. If it weren't for the grand kids I would be gone. If I left I would NEVER be allowed to see them as they are not biologically mine.