my friends are always together and never ask me to go anywhere with them. i just feel like im following them and being annoying. i just wanna be wanted by someone. my moms always calling me useless and other degrading words. i wanna make new friends but i cant get myself to do anything. im really pathetic

my friends are always together and never ask me to go anywhere with them. i just feel like im following them and being annoying. i just wanna be wanted by someone. my moms always calling me useless and other degrading words. i wanna make new friends but i cant get myself to do anything. im really pathetic

That has happened to me as well. So I decided to just be on my own rather than being surrounded by fake friends. I'm not sure about your situation, but you can try proving to your mom that you are not useless, such as helping out with the chores and etc. However, if you feel like her opinions are not true, just filter it out and don't take it seriously, as you know who you truly are. Words may hurt, but it is your choice to decide whether to allow it to affect you or not. Friends come and go, so just let it be. When the timing is right, you'll be able to meet friends that may last for a life time. Remember, quality over quantity. It's ok not to have friends now, at least you still have yourself. Stay strong!

That has happened to me as well. So I decided to just be on my own rather than being surrounded by fake friends. I'm not sure about your situation, but you can try proving to your mom that you are not useless, such as helping out with the chores and etc. However, if you feel like her opinions are not true, just filter it out and don't take it seriously, as you know who you truly are. Words may hurt, but it is your choice to decide whether to allow it to affect you or not. Friends come and go, so just let it be. When the timing is right, you'll be able to meet friends that may last for a life time. Remember, quality over quantity. It's ok not to have friends now, at least you still have yourself. Stay strong!

Re: i feel so lonely.

I get how you feel, when I was younger I had tons of "friends" but slowly I culled them from my life. I went from something like 15 friends down to 4 and recently kicked one to the curb, don't let words get to you and remember we all have a use, it just might not shine as bright as others'.Some advice on making friends, I'm not going to lie it's a huge pain and one hell of a hassle. But join some kind of club (just as an example, I joined a D&amp;D club, nothing really came out of it, but I learned to talk to others there) or hell even a gym, try small-talking after you spot someone interesting looking (This took me weeks, but I've made 2 really good friends this way). Another trick is don't make friends with other friends' friends, they'll tend to bunch around that other friend. Best of luck, make some real friends!

I get how you feel, when I was younger I had tons of "friends" but slowly I culled them from my life. I went from something like 15 friends down to 4 and recently kicked one to the curb, don't let words get to you and remember we all have a use, it just might not shine as bright as others'.Some advice on making friends, I'm not going to lie it's a huge pain and one hell of a hassle. But join some kind of club (just as an example, I joined a D&D club, nothing really came out of it, but I learned to talk to others there) or hell even a gym, try small-talking after you spot someone interesting looking (This took me weeks, but I've made 2 really good friends this way). Another trick is don't make friends with other friends' friends, they'll tend to bunch around that other friend. Best of luck, make some real friends!