Thats not good. We don’t all have to learn the same exact lessons the same way, as long as we end up in the same place eventually it doesn't matter. Life would be boring otherwise, that's what we tell ourselves. For me personally, I needed to learn about spirituality and "divinity" but some people depend on that stuff too much. I needed to break the cycle of always believing we live in an imperfect world with no meaning because the alternative was the oppression and rigidity of the church. I have now transcended that and so can everyone else without having to experience the same struggles that I faced.