Hi , I stayed with one of my friends couple of months back. I met Rahul who is one my roommates friend Geetha (that is how they introduced to me). Rahul and I became close and he proposed me, he was very much like me, his ideas would resemble mine a lot. I accepted and didn’t take much time. We were even physical and it was first time I was in a physical relationship like that. I became very connected to him. All of a sudden Geetha started abusing me and would shout at me for no reason. I later found Rahul and Geetha were in live-in relationship for 2 years before and broke-up. Geetha is obsessed with him and would create all kinds of problems. The worst part is I dint knew any of this, they would be very close to each other and I just thought they were friends, When I confronted Rahul about her behavior towards me he just said that she was and is her friend and that he never had any feelings for her, it was her who misunderstood his caring as love. Geetha never told me about their relationship and continued cursing me. I was vexed up and shouted, and she revealed everything about their relationship. I was devastated. Why would he lie to me about their past, he convinced me that all that was his past and he never cheated on me. I believed him and we continued our relationship. I moved from that place to another city due to my job. He had to stay there only bcz of his job. I started seeing him behaving very differently from when I was with him. He would not reply to my texts or calls and would always say he is busy, they would still meet up and say it was just casual. He had very bad temper and would show that to me when ever I find something odd at his behavior. I couldn’t take it anymore and I broke up with him. He called me after few days and said I was a whore and cheated on him and started abusing me, both him and Geetha. It was terrible. They started making rumors about me around the people there, I had good friends there. I still couldn’t believe someone who showed you that you are their world could just turn around and abuse you like that. I felt ashamed to love someone like that. The worst thing is I still miss him a lot even though he caused me pain. I had my all firsts with him, I was so much emotionally involved with him. I feel like dying when I remember all the things and those cuss words just won’t go away from my head.