I feel worthless. My kindness keeps getting taken advantage of. If I were to disappear the only thing people would miss from me is just freeloading. I get taken advantage of every time and I let it happen because there’s no one else. I convince myself that it will progressively get better, but It never does. I’ve been telling myself this for 10 years out of the 22 in my life. When will it end, or will it ever.
Re: I hope I have to never come back to this site, but here I am.
My parents spoiled my siblings but gave me away. From age 18 on a bunch of them mooched off me for yrs. when my health deteriorated I finally woke up & started concentrating on my own wife & kids.
My advice; if you have a disabled sibling or something keep helping them; but let the others fend for themselves as much as possible.
One of my sisters was useless. When I finally quit paying all her bills she actually did well (I did pay to get her a skill).