I messed up and I’m scared

I’ve been putting myself down enough for this, but I could use any help I can get.

My boyfriend and I had a friend over, we got drunk. My boyfriend went to sleep, and the “friend” manipulated me into messing around. 5 second penetration, no thrust, but was already hard for awhile. I had a panic attack and made him stop and stay away from me. My boyfriend does not know, I don’t have the heart to tell him. I’m now 9 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend and I sleep together a lot unprotected. And the “friend” claims he has a low sperm count, but that’s still a 1 out of 3 chance. It’s 95% my boyfriends or 5% other guys. I definitely deserve this pain for what happened, but I couldn’t bare if my second child wasn’t my boyfriends. Please tell me if I’m over reacting or what my chances here are.

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5 months ago

Re: I messed up and I’m scared

Did the “friend” ejaculate inside you? If not, your chances of being pregnant by him are very low.

At what point in your cycle did this happen? Most women ovulate near day 14 of their cycle (two weeks after the first day of their period). If the encounter with the “friend” did not happen near this time, it is very unlikely he got you pregnant.