I feel hoodwinked, because I was sold this image of a man that only appears once a month. He only does enough to stay at my level, so that I don't end it, but he doesn't do more to keep me happy. He will fight me tooth and nail to stay as lazy. I'm starting to get resentful, because I'm lazy by disability, and he's lazy by choice. He has no drive in him to do the things that he should to feel pride in being responsible, he feels better shrugging it off. He makes no attempt to improve on these faults. He has zero drive. He won't listen to my suggestions or help me without complaining. My anxiety is always sky high now, and I need an emergency couples therapy session stat!