I work with someone that I consider to be my closest guy friend. I also happen to be falling in love with him. Which would be fine if he wasn't already married. He's been with his wife over 3 years and dated her for 9 before that and he always seems happy when he talks about her. But then he makes comments that make me question it! Like we somehow got on the topic of us being together romantically and I said it would never happen (to remind myself that it won't because he's MARRIED) and he got up in arms about not being good enough for me and then said "aside from being married and all that". He's also very touch oriented but he's like that with most people so I don't read to much into that. It just sucks that I want him but I know I can't.