Hay, I need advice. Im a 15 year old who has been living with their aunt as a Legal guardian for the past 10-ish years, Latley I feel as if I'm not like most children my age, I mean I do everything down to cooking and cleaning everyday before and after school, my friends have been asking me why I always seem busy, and I was confused, I thought everyone did this, later i found out this to be not true,
However the reason I'm asking for advice falls into a different subject, my aunt has been shouting more and more despite the fact she knows that loud noises scare the crap out of me to the point I sometimes take panic attacks, I was told that it could be considered abuse because how much I do as well as the constaint shouting and one-sided arguments, Could someone tell me if it is..? to be honest, I really don't know anymore.
one last question,
What should I do, My aunt is extreamly homaphobic, and transphobic,I was born a girl but I concider myself to be agender, and I have a girlfriend. Should I tell her? she keeps asking me when I'll get a boyfriend, she even asked me that infront of my girlfriend, which my gf asked me about. My gf thinks I sould tell her but right now I need an outsiders opinion, could someone please give me some advice on these questions?