I'll try and keep this short. I have very strong feelings for my best friend (I'm a guy and so is he). He knows I like him and says it doesn't change anything and we're still very close friends. It has been over 6 months but I still have strong feelings. The worst part is he has feelings for a girl who is both of our friends. I love her to death but I find it hard not to get jealous when I'm around them both. She said she also likes him but won't do anything as to not cause me pain and she says she's happy where she is right now. I don't know how to get over him without cutting him out from my life or distancing myself, and I don't know how to stop my feelings of jealousy.
Re: I need advice
I have a different mindset than you. So this answer is not what you’re looking for.
Your friends are trying very hard to keep you happy. You should try returning the favor by making them happy.
Yes, it will cause you pain, but wouldn’t it help you feel better? Knowing that you helped 2 of the people that you care most about?