hi I'm bisexual girl and I think I'm aromantic but I have no way of actually finding out. I've dated 3 people in my life, 2 guys and a girl. for the first guy I dated, I'll call him J, he confessed to me and even though I had no feelings toward him I still went out with him because I thought maybe it would work out. after a short time, I started feeling really disgusted that I was dating him and I felt sort of anxious about it so we broke up. the second guy, I'll call him K, it was kind of obvious that he liked me so I asked him out because I liked him too. I felt the same feeling I felt towards K as i felt towards J and i was so confused because i thought i liked him. i told him that I didnt like him anymore and we stopped seeing eachother. for the girl, I'll call her X, she confessed to me first and I went out with her for longer than I did with K and J. I didnt feel the same feelings i felt towards the guys as I felt towards her so we were together for a while until I got worried about my parents finding out about us. I might be lesbian, but i really just think I'm aromantic because i fantasize more about guys than girls, but now that I think about it ive only been turned on by girls so i actually have no clue 🤔