1.5 years with my girl. I have told her a few times that I loved her. Today I put it in my good night text for the first time. I'm okay that she can't tell me yet that she loves me. It's a complicated relationship. I know it will take time. Having a relationship with a damaged woman is NO easy task. I'm choosing to love a damaged woman who has never been married. She is short, sexy and absolutely an amazing lover. I choose to love every day. I know that in time she will tell me she loves me.