"I'd never really thought of myself as anything other than straight until a friend of mine said she liked me and it was too bad I didn't like girls. I laughed it off, but something in my head went, 'It is too bad I'm straight!' Later that evening, I took a chance and kissed her while we were watching a movie. Then one thing led to another, which led to our dating for a year and a half. I had always assumed I had to be straight because I like men. Now, I happily identify as bisexual, and a lot of feelings and a few dreams from high school make a lot more sense."
Re: I took a chance and kissed her
That’s easy. As kids we are biologically similar. Puberty cause chemicals that change us. In college I was identified as an alpha alpha male. I didn’t know was such thing. I think he made up name.
He noticed that these big giant men were drawn to me & followed my lead. Like the lead wolf of alpha males. Made sense. The men who sought out my friendship & pestered me to do stuff with them were football players; martial artists; hunters; soldiers alpha males. A science teacher was amazed by me. I have some very odd genetics. Thick bones. Giant bone structure. Thick dense muscle. Thick hair & body hair. Im 60 & look 28. Zero wrinkles.
I think one said I was like XYYY or something. I didn’t care.
Anyways. Ive always been like ultimate male. Never had single gay thought. But a small amount of men do. I think these homophobic males either secretly have no thoughts or were mollested by a male. I fully support gays; have even got in fight to save one being gay bashed one night.
Females. You are designed to have kids & nest. We are designed to go off; climb; mountains; hunt; fight. I have risk taker gene. Have done crazy stuff before learn ignore impulses.
Females are more likely care & cry. I think 50% females are bi till mid to late 20’s then outgrow. Some stay bi. Some don’t act on it. Some pure gay.
I’m a super stud. In college I made friends with bi coeds & ended up having sex with a number of them. Got in some crazy stuff with me & multi females. Granted; most of the 200 plus females I had sex with were solo but I started wondering how many were bi.
Lucky I don’t have aids. Limit your number & follow safe sex. Wish I’d had higher character then.
So I think you are normal. But this world is cruel to gays.
I wonder about my daughter. She’s built like a male heavy weight wrestler. So strong like most females on one side my family. Very pretty but a lot of males won’t date her. Boys mocked her. She started being called gay after a boy grab her ass & she beat his ass down. Older big boy.
She was always boy crazy. Then something happen at sleepover. I don’t know what. She was angry & stuff. Then start act weird. I think a girl talk her into gay stuff. Now I think she looks at her huge body & fact that her face looks like mine & she wonders if she should have been boy. She ask that sort of. I said you do know I look like girl in face.
As child everyone thought I was beautiful girl no matter what I wore. Older boys would see me with female cheerleaders I hung out with (sex) & think me girl. All of us. Me dress like cowboy. He’d ask me out. Sure. I talk easy with females. That’s cause I always liked dance with & kiss them.
Then puberty hit & I turn into hulk. Sometimes a man will only see my face; smile at me, how can I help you mam. Then they realize I’m male & go pale.
Point is biologically were different. Look at hands. Most are right hand. Some left. A few both. I have used both my hands equally. I boxed & batted with both. Write & threw all balls with both. Guess my hands are bi.
You will have a lot of people tell you you can’t be Christian. Bull shit. Sure Bible says is sin. That’s because God wanted us repopulate. But he made us how we are including gay. Bi like you could still marry & have kids. I lived by gay males who were great dads. Boy caught crap but my kids treat well. Gays can adopt; get sperm donation from stud like me. Get woman to carry baby. Whatever. So it’s no big deal.