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I want it to end but I can't

I want to break up with my girlfriend. We've been together for almost ten years. In the last year and a half she's been I'll with an undiagnosed disorder. She's in constant pain and the only thing that helps is a large cocktail of pain killers. She's not herself anymore. She can't physically do the things she used to and the drugs/pain ruin her mind. I'n basically her carer and I don't think I can do it anymore. I wanted my own life. Not this. But I'm too scared of being the monster that leaves her. I'm getting nothing out of this relationship anymore and it's been awful for my mental health. I know that at the end of the day she has it worse, but I can leave and right now I just wish I was single.

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Re: I want it to end but I can't

hello, i know you're tired and frustated 'cause of your girl. you mentioned that you're getting nothing, and you'll just leave because you're getting nothing? bruh, she's sick and you'll leave her? she needs you. you made her your girl, you have to be in her side. if she's not getting any better, then you're not trying your best to make your girl feel better. it is also depending on you, you can make her better. be better together.

Please don't end it all. Has your girlfriend asked for help/got a therapist? I don't really feel qualified to reply to this tbh but I just wanted to let you know that I care about you both.