Until the night of Valentine's day, I (29M) was in a relationship with a kind and genuine man (32). That night, however, he took advantage of me while I was drunk and sleeping. I am so grateful that I was not physically harmed, but I was still abused. Looking back, there were so many red flags where he would disregard feelings, ask for vulnerability without making himself vulnerable, or not listen. I feel like a fool because this event feels, to me, like the natural conclusion of his behaviors and I missed the warning signs all the way until now.