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idek i just need someone to talk to that’s not in the situation

so i’m in a relationship with this guy and he’s at army boot camp.. i have bipolar 1 and the father of my child keeps coming around and i let him bc i’m lonely i’m scared i’ll end up having sex with him during a manic episode the guy im with is amazing and on top of that i don’t want to ruin the co parent friendship i’ve created with my daughters father.. i’m also worried people will notice he’s around a lot and make assumptions then i’ll have to defend myself regardless if i do anything with him or not.. i’m afraid the first thing when my guy comes back is an argument of me being accused of something i didn’t do



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Re: idek i just need someone to talk to that’s not in the situation

Does your current partner know about your child’s father? If you’re having sexual intercourses with another man (no matter who) while you’re in a relationship that’s cheating and if you can’t bring yourself to tell your partner then that’s not loyal is it. Imagine going to camp and coning back to realising your partner cheated on you... honestly the best thing you can do right now is either pick one or end it with both because you’re leading both of them on