I am 30, gay and been in a good amount of relationships. I love being in love and when I am in a relationship, I am monogamous. But this last relationship broke me. He tried to cheat... and almost all of my other serious exes have cheated. I have developed this new random kink that I know has some psychological reason for being the case. I love hooking up with married men. I get off on them being with me knowing that their wife/husband is waiting for them at home. I love when they are talking to their partners on the phone while they are going to town on me "Sorry honey, I just have to finish this report then I will be home, Love you". I know it is sooo wrong. And, I would never cheat in a relationship I am in, but yeah... just had to get that out.