Do you really need to cheat? Is it necessary?Can't you just be faithful to your partner?Why would you cheat?Don't you know you're ruining everything?All of that, I want to ask my dad all of those questions. He just... Ruined everything. If he didn't cheated,maybe growing up my mental health is still fine, maybe I had a happy childhood,maybe mom wouldn't treat me differently than my siblings and maybe she wouldn't hate me and maybe I didn't end up having this messed up life. I grow up having Depression that I hide with my mean face. My mom always lashed out all of her anger at my dad to me,just because I look like him,my dad.And then I became a teenager,they will always ask me "why are you like this?" "What happened to you? We can't understand you at all" and " Why can't you just be like other kids?". Those questions made me laugh... You did this to me so don't ask me all those questions because you wouldn't like it if I answer all of that.