When I met him everything was great he seems so real.He made me feel safe, he loved my son he was stable, he was such a people person the light of the party. After months of dating we moved in together. Soon after that the petty fights started. I would leave to show I wasn’t going to put up with his behaviors and little lies... he would apologize and I would always go back and then one day he made me promise I wouldn’t leave again that’s why everything changed.. I lost myself in that promise. now he threatens to leave me and I beg him to stay when I know I need to let him go but I’m scared to start over, If I were to walk away from this relationship I know he wouldn’t make it easy for me. Everything ‘s a battle/fight now imagining what it would be like makes me sick to my stomach.. This person has stopped me from furthering my education getting jobs I wanted etc, I'm lost. Me: “ i’m thinking of ending things soon.” Iv been saying that for the past 4 years.