Is it so goddamn hard to give someone a fucking hug or show even the slightest bit of affection? The strong silent routine is fine sometimes but when the week has been as bad as this one it would be nice if my husband would pull his head out of his ass for just a second and make some sort of effort to showe he cares at all. He doesn't have to do much, just a little bit of compassion or affection would go a long way. But no, he just goes off and is in his own little world. But god forbid the cat needs something. She gets held, snuggled, loved on, like there is no tomorrow. I can't even try and just hug him since he is always covered in her hair and I am allergic. So I just sit here, quiet, trying not to be jealous of a goddamn cat.