I’m getting to a point where I can’t take this anymore. Recently started researching about empathy and wonder if I am one - have shared all of this with my fiancé. And yet when he’s angry, he says mean awful things. He plays on my deepest insecurities, things I’ve told him I’m acutely aware of that I’ve never told anyone. He calls me a “whore” and a “bitch,” says I’m a bad mother, a terrible wife. And then makes me feel crazy for taking it personally. I’ve even questioned at times whether life is even worth it because maybe he’s right maybe I am a terrible wife and mother so what’s the point. I just don’t know how much more I can take. I wish I weren’t so sensitive. I wish I COULD just let these things roll off like he claims normal people can. I just wish I was different.
Re: Just an Overly Sensitive Lady.
Are you kidding me? You beleive him? No one lets rhose kinds of words just roll off. Those are emotional/ mental abuse. Hes abusing you honey. Disrespecting you. You need to leave his ass.