I love my family dearly and agonize over their problems but I am older now with a lot of personal responsibilities and my own problems. I realize I can't fix every crisis. I donot want to intrude on the lives of adult people even though their issues are often heartbreaking to me. I will always care and I am here if they need to talk but I refuse to get entangled in their dramas. It does not help. I have given a lot of myself emotionally and sometimes financially, in the past. Now I need to let go and not feel I have to jump everytime someone has an issue come up. And especially if they are not reaching out to me.