i’ve been in a long distance relationship for about a year now. Last summer I found a picture on his phone of him posing in front of a girls bare ass. He told me that she was just a friend and that it was taken at a party as a joke. He even went as far as to have the girl text me and tell me that they’re just friends. I noticed that they would comment on each other‘s posts little inside jokes. It always kind of got under my skin but I didn’t want to be the crazy girlfriend. We would also argue about him commenting on random girls pictures complementing them. We took a break at the very end of summer and got back together in about the end of November. When we got back together everything was good for a while and then in January the feelings just weren’t the same but on his end. When I confronted him about it he told me that he had found someone he liked up there. We had always told each other that if we thought we had found someone else that it would be OK if we took a break to figure it out. But I thought that we are already in so deep that that wouldn’t happen. About a month and a half later he texted me because they hadn’t turned out like he thought it would. I can’t help but think I’m just a placeholder until he finds someone there now. But back to the “friend”. Around the same time that he came back I’d put the pieces together and figured out that that was his ex-girlfriend. When I asked him about it he said they dated for about six months a few years ago. And while we took a break from the end of summer at two November they had gotten back together for a minute. I don’t know what to think anymore. I don’t know if I can trust him. I want to say that I can but I feel very naïve if I just let it all go. I love him but so much has happened that I don’t think I’ll ever be able to trust him the same. I know that he’s sorry but sometimes I can’t help but feel like I should just break it off and start off new with someone else. The connection we have is unreal besides the sneakiness. I think we can both agree that we’ve never been so comfortable with anybody else that we’ve been with. I don’t know if I should stay or leave. Please give me your raw, honest advice.