I am 30y/o and feel like a bad person, hurting my partner. We are together sinve high school, and for 15 years, we can't make any big progress on our relationship. She doesn't want kids, she don't want to get married, she won't move out of her house, so we live with her parents. I was hoping these things would change with time, but indeed, they don't. She is also really unambitious, and I consider her selfish. Meanwhile I've made a big progress on my own, currently being a Director of a big company, pushing myself to the limit in a career perspective. I was pushing myself that hard for my relationship in the first years, but then I started missing stuff and alsways tried to fill the gaps with a career development. Now, she has problem with that too, I work too much, I don't spend enough time with her, I don't do that, and this and it's all my fault, always. Now I am not sure if I am really the bad person, waiting things she doesn't and in fact, continuing to invest into my career, and what should I do. She is not a bad person, and leaving her will be a huge drama, she will go through it really hard. I don't really have somebody else I want to be with. Not sure what to do.