So, my husband and I have been living together for a year now. We’ve had our ups and downs like just about every marriage but lately, he’s become more withdrawn. We have a 1-year-old son who I raised on my own up until he was 8 months because my husband was deployed. I adore my son and I would do absolutely anything for him. I make sure he’s well fed, active, and engage with him daily. A few days ago, my husband and I had a little argument which resulted in him basically telling me that I’m a worthless mother. Not in those words, exactly, but it was heavily implied. I took great offense to this, as I’m sure most would. It was like a slap in the face. I felt insulted and belittled by my own husband. Later on in the day, I had pushed our quarrel aside and tended to our son as I normally would, disregarding his hateful comment. I brought our son upstairs to the bedroom so my husband could give him a kiss goodnight and happened to catch a glance at his computer screen. An opened Discord chat showed a picture of a woman giving a man oral which was followed by a reply from my husband which stated “Where do I sign up?” Another picture was sent of a woman’s ass. Now, I’m unsure if this was a group or private message but either way, it really put me off. I’ve never had a reason to go through my husband’s belongings because I completely trusted him but having witnessed this with my own eyes by pure coincidence really started to chip away at that trust. Today, I sent him to the store because we needed a few essentials and while he was away, I took this opportunity to check his dms. Apparently he’s been conversing with a woman every day, sending her semi-nude pictures of himself and blatantly flirting. I really want to talk to him about this but I strongly believe he’ll either just brush it off or completely deny it. I truly love him but I have a suspicion that he hardly feels the same. It seriously makes me question whether he married me because it was the “right thing to do for our son” because I don’t feel any love from him. How else am I suppose to feel? Am I wrong to think such a thing? He’s a married man with a son.