So the way I've fallen in love with the few woman in my life, was through the same pattern.Like one (2 grown up adults), we didn't had phone each other to communicate. So we were writing notes and leaving it on our bikes. Funny ones with drawings. We did that for months before doing the next move. I still have those notes.Other one was boat talk, we talked boat everyday over and over for months. Someone else was her asking me to support her, and writing her a nice sentence every day.If you want me to fall in love with you, give time. So you become a habit, someone that is just part of my life.That's the way in, for whatever is worth.