I've been married for 15 years, and happy for about 3 of them. When she wanted to have kids we did, and they whole dynamic changed. She doesn't love me anymore; she claims she does but i think she only loves the children and the lifestyle i provide. I am in love with the ghost of her, who she was before we had kids. I only ever wanted her and now she doesn't exist anymore. I don't know where to go from here. I am just pretending to be happy but i mourn my "lost wife" secretly everyday.