If she doesn’t find you hot enough for casual sex, she can't be trusted for anything serious. That's a principle men need to start following when looking for marriage. They would avoid so much pain that way. Most women are only "less visual than men" in a pragmatic sense, often settling for men they're not sexually attracted to once they realize the men they ARE physically attracted to won't commit to them. And what's the result? Sexless marriages, high materialistic demands (he has to "compensate"), resentment, cheating, disrespect, high likelihood of divorce, etc, etc. You DON'T want to be swindled into a loveless marriage! Not all relationships are like this, but around a quarter of them ARE, and you need to be careful, guys. Screen out the settlers. Date and marry the "slut". Avoid the whore. If she's not sexually attracted to you but dates you anyway, she's a whore. Settling in the looks department isn't "virtue" or "maturity". Don't fall for that crap. It's a scam.Once I started screening out the settlers, the quality of my relationships improved DRAMATICALLY! No more games, no more nagging/picking fights, no more blatant disrespect, no more gold digging behavior, no more being cheated on, etc. A relationship with a woman who is legitimately physically attracted to you is a whole different world than someone whose "attraction" to you is mostly pragmatic. I've been married to my wife for 8 years now, and not once has she ever disrespected me, treated me like a walking ATM, picked a fight, or rationed/weaponized sex. If you're looking to get married, you better make damn sure she's physically attracted to you and isn't one of those settlers out there, otherwise she will treat you like garbage once she feels she has you locked down. Screen out the settlers, guys. Tell them you're not looking for anything serious. The settlers and gold diggers will recoil like a vampire from a crucifix. So will that minority of girls who DO like you but are just hung up on commitment, BUT..... if you're smart, that's a chance you better be willing to take. DON'T let the settlers out there swindle you into a loveless marriage!