I'm in a situation where my partner tells me that I am at fault for everything wrong in our lives... I have honestly believed him for a while now... However, I have been challenging his points lately and making it impossible for him to sway from what is right. We have been getting into fights so much lately and he keeps threatening to leave or telling me that I need to get out, he will also throw things in my direction, back me into corners, yell, and other things that are not acceptable... I told him the other day that it was the last time he threatened me about breaking up, and he was mad and started saying that I didn't want to work on us and that he was hurt that I was just so willing to throw our relationship away.... I have never threatened to leave or told him to get out, I just wanted to make it clear that when he does that it hurts and destroys my trust in our relationship... i really wish he would just beat the fuck out of me, because maybe then I would be strong enough to leave but I honestly don't know... he would probably just convince me that it was my fault and that he didn't mean to... he told me that if broke up that I probably would be more successful than him and find a better nicer guy, but he soured it by saying that I would just be falsely happy without the truth... if I didn't have kids I'm pretty sure I would have killed myself by now, its hard not to imagine all the different ways I could do it. Fuck if you actually read this, thanks 🤷♀️. Sorry it is so confusing.