he never did anything to extreme but it haunts me everyday.i was 8 when he came to live with us, I'm now nearly 15. the first day he was here my mum and him made out every 5 seconds on the sofa, i was just a kid trying to play barbies but that image wont leave me.after a while he became controlling and manipulative as well as his punishments and the reasoning for them were bizarre. for example one time i left a sock on my floor, ONE sock and he made me sit in my bed doing nothing for the rest of the day.no talking, no moving, no doing anything. He'd make fun of my disabled brother for being "wonky" , "gremlin" and other unforgettable words. not only this but he hit my two disabled brothers multiple times and even thro one of them at a wall. The boys were 6. 6years old. i got the least punishments, not because i was the favourite but because i broke my self mentally to be perfect and so that i was safe. he too my money i had earned and spent it himself because "im a little c*nt, who deserves nothing". one year he decided he was going to change money situations. we ate the same beans on toast for dinner. cornflake (which we all hated) every morning for breakfast. no snacks. nothing. pudding was a reward. I didnt realise it then but i was looking back at a photo and i was so skinny. no juice or any other liquids for us older 4, only water. he treated his son like royalty and i do adore my brother dearly but id pay anything not to have met his dad. he forced me and my sister to share a room, so his child could have his own special place. he mentally and emotional abused me and us older siblings. he got drunk and did drugs occasionally well its probably not, im probably being selfish and arrogant. he did much more but i dont even wanna remember it.he got my mum pregnant twice and made my mum believe how he was punishing u was "normal".im not 15 he has his own place now, but he still associates with us. my mum had him round for xmas and she always facetimes him, makes up excuses for him. i have lost any sort of trust in my mum. y mum made him move out because i told her i couldnt deal w him and since she has this hatred towards me.Anyways due to this i have severe anxiety, trust issues and a damaged body image. the day i turn 18, im never associating with any of it again, formy sake.sorry its not as important as everyone elses issues but i though id share.