Last year a girl initiated contact and we started talking. We clicked naturally and soon became very good friends. We couldn't meet for a while due to the covid frenzy. Sometime in September she ghosted me, out of the blue. For two months. I did not check up on her until December when we started talking again normally. I didn't really address the reason why she had chosen to ghost me. She initiated the idea that we watch a movie together. On the morning of the day she sent me a message saying that she has to distance herself from me because she was going into a serious relationship and wanted to focus on it. Naturally I was disappointed, did not respond to the message, and assumed it was all over. Not until a few weeks later on December 25th, she messaged to wish happy Christmas mass and on the New years day I also messaged to wish HNY. We clicked again and continued talking normally. We became very close and spoke almost everyday for the last three months. I got frustrated some days ago because I had told her I was developing feelings for her and she had told me it is the same. But that she was still thinking if to get into a relationship with me. We had discussed this earlier and she said her doubts were due to the fact that I was probably leaving the city in a few months, and also because I hadn't made enough efforts to initiate in-person interaction at the beginning (we had since then hung out together a few times). Fair enough.But then I got frustrated at her since I wasn't getting closure, and gave an apathetic response to a text message she sent one time. She didn't respond and we didn’t talk for four days. Then I reached out (on the fourth day) to see how she was doing. I am a senior in college and we were taking finals so I had assumed she needed that space too to deal with finals.When I reached out that day I also invited her to my hooding ceremony and for dinner (in two days). On the day of the hooding she responds that she will not be able to come for the dinner since she to set up for another friend's graduation party. No problem. At the time of the ceremony, I wait but she doesn't show up nor call. I follow up in case something bad might have happened to her; no response. Nothing until a few days later when she says she is sorry she missed my ceremony but we should go on our separate ways. Obviously I know I have to let go and I have not responded to that message. Not out of resentment but out of resignation.I'm just posting this here to see how y'all would react.thanks.