Hi, so this is my first one of these I'm nonbinary, my partner is female. I generally am very fashion savvy and like to surprise her by dressing up for her when we do the dirty. Today she told me she feels inferior when I dress up because she feels I'm showing her up when I dress feminine or pretty. This hurt my feelings because I also have self confidence issues and I dress up when I want to feel better about myself. I feel like a dick for being upset about it but I really love looking sexy in feminine clothing. What do I do??