I just don't understand. My son has really bad depression. He says it's been going on for over a year, but I never noticed any signs. I told our pastor about it so he could have weekly meetings to helps him drive out the demonic spirit of depression, but his condition is getting worse. He's usually a really good kid, but his behavior is becoming unacceptable, especially since it's been a long time since I've had to spank him. Today I tried talking to him about how he needs to work harder to catch up on schoolwork, since I know he can do better than a C student. He started having an attitude, said he hated me, then locked himself in his room. He's never cussed in his life, but when I told him to open the door, he yelled "F*ck off, a$$hole!" What did I do wrong?