is it okay to keep your distance from someone whom you feel has hurted/manipulated you in the past(8-9 months ago and before), from whom your parents also suggest to cut off, and you know, your family values don't match, and you've always felt disrespectful in the past. They say they miss you, but I do not want to come in that sort of a bond now, because I know sooner or later, I'll again feel disrespectful. I don't understand. Am I on the right path? I don't really wanna hurt anyone but most importantly not myself.