Both married. Feelings mutual but we can’t be together. He is very persistent. We both need each other as our emotional connection is strong. Mutual feelings of love. I’m just not willing to give up my family life I already created, for him. I think he is. I struggle missing him at times & feel as though I lead him on, but the feelings are there - I just can’t act on them again. Need help & support being strong setting boundaries one day/week/situation at a time. We work together & I don’t want to be hurtful. I just think I’m putting my heart through too much hurt being torn about handling it all. It feels like self sabotage at times.