I'll start this off by saying I was born a woman i've always identified as one and didn't really give it a second thought till around 5th grade(im currently a freshman) but my understanding at the time was limited. i've been molested and sexually harassed/overly sexualized my entire life and there are times i just stare in a mirror and cry. Taking showers make me want to die and the entire time i feel like i'm dreaming or looking through a bus window. i can barely if at al visualize myself in my head my name and pronouns don't bring me any specific discomfort but there's a name i've dwelled on for a long time that makes me far more comfortable than my current one. my breasts don't bring me discomfort whatsoever and infact commonly give me confidince but my vigina makes me want to cry in frustration. i'm not quite sure if im trans or just uncomfortable with my body due to my childhood i don't want to falsely come out or transition then come to regret it later on if anyone here has any advice please respond or maybe just respond and refer to me by toby and they/them so ik if i'm more comfortable with it than my other name.