I've been told that I'm not a serious person few times because I turn many of my conversation into a bit of comedy or try to be funny ..
Its not that I'm not taking what they're saying seriously or that Im not serious..
Sometimes it's because I wanna avoid the topic, and other times it's because I wanna simply make others smile or laugh, even if it's a dumb joke or whatever ..
And most of all because usually when I'm serious no one listens to me or take me seriously so I adopted this mechanism to avoid being judged or ignored when I'm saying something .. that way I won't be not taking seriously because I don't even seem to be serious..
I also don't like to express my real feelings and share my real thoughts so it's also a way to cover that up..
I don't hate doing this but it's annoying when someone tells me you're not a serious person, when in my mind there is a fucking war of thoughts
So that's it thank you