My poor wife wasn’t to blame. She was hurt really bad as a child. I almost went & hurt someone. She begged me to let it go. There’s something wrong with her. She’s too kind. Completely devoted to God. Her mom uses that against her. I never did. But my daughter. Was boy crazy. She saved a gay girl. This got her attacked by a gang at school. She won at first. I went to school. They did nothing. On & on. They called her gay. Older boys groped her everywhere. She ended up fighting 2-3 older boys at once. I can smash men. Not kids. I wanted to slap the principal or someone. I tried to solve it. They did nothing. Wife wouldn’t let me press charges. I taught her to dress like boy. Helped. But now she was labeled gay. Girls mocked her. Was a new school. She was a Christian. She just saw 3 girls attacking a crying girl & did what she thought was right. She’d never seen something quite like that. Everyone told her she looked like a boy. Laughed at her. She’s so kind. She’d lay in floor & scream. All of that for protecting a gay child. She had one friend now. A gay girl. All her old friends had moved on. Stopped texting one at time. It’s all my fault. My disease beat me. Couldn’t borrow any more money. Forced into disability. I am why they all hurt. Im the man. I’m supposed to fight to the death for those I love. That’s why I had nearly 2 million is term life. I was prepared to die working if it came to it. But she begged me after the second time I almost died at work. Had I went back they’d still been in s good school either way. I messed up. So I home schooled. Her sports friends spread she was gay. No more invitations to sleep overs. I heard her best friend. My dad said I can’t talk to you anymore. She’s not even gay. We live in an F’d up world. So she started wondering. Maybe she is Bi. She’s probably not. She was boy crazy before. But. So what if she is? I’ll smash any man that hurts her. Some preacher tried to bring that up to me. I told him off. Well. My ex’s mom told her it’s a sin. Here came a preacher. A woman at Church. I fought it. So I’m a sinner. She should leave me. On & on. I had never argued. Ex said if she’s gay im kicking her out. She didn’t mean it. Repeating what her mom said. Who kicked her out at 16. I said nope. I’ll kick you out & sue for the kids. Her mom start smart off at me. Here we are. I’m divorced. It was a lot more than that. It was just one of many things her mom stirred up. But I can’t believe my wife said that. Just because her mom got a preacher to tell her that. I could go smack his a$$. But I’d be in jail. She blamed me. Your always defending everybody. They see you do it. Well. That’s true. I don’t get into arguments with them around. But I do speak up in my home. My kids will know we love everybody. I have argued with preachers over this. I don’t want anyone teaching my kids to hate. Especially blaming their hate on Jesus. It wasn’t the gay. It was the mom control my ex. Well my daughter is now dating a 6’4” blond muscle dude her age. I told her. Find you a big muscular man that isn’t afraid of you. Your beautiful. Your just physically bigger than most men. They know you can kick their butt. So they won’t date you. Find a man that’s bigger than you. If he ever acts up. Your brother or I will show up. She’s happy. Someone finally thinks she’s pretty. She is. She’s just built like a Mack truck. It’s my genes. She told me once. I wish mom hadn’t married you. I look like I play in the NFL. A boy told her that. I said well. At least any would be rapist will end up in the hospital looking for his testicles. But here’s the thing. I don’t care. She’s my baby. I fought for gay people before she was born. I stand with the least amongst us. God made me more man than others to protect the weak. I’ll keep trying to help make this world better till it changes or I’m dead. So that’s the thing. Parents & Churches have to change. We can’t have babies killing themselves because your afraid you might be gay. It never bothered me. I know I’m straight. I think it bothers the people who suppress secret thoughts. Oh well.