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One sided love since highschool.

I am seriously in love with a girl. Since high school, but she never accepted me. We were realy good friends, but I keep destroying it every chance I get. Atleast a dozen times. I don't know how I can stop doing it. I already have a girlfriend, who I actually love. But then again, I got back in touch with this girl from highschool. Been about 2-3 months, we talk and chat once in a while. But lately I realised the feeling slowly creeping back to me, I am actually finding it harder and harder to contain it as days go by. I seriously don't want to mess up this time. I really don't know what to do and how to deal with this situation. Don't know who to talk to, about this situation of mine. Hope someday, someone will shine some light for me and show me a way out of this.

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Re: One sided love since highschool.

I think you’re in an enviable position. You’re in love with two people at the same time. I think that’s a wonderful thing and you should enjoy that feeling of loving people for who they are. You don’t need to attach any meaning to it. Just love the people that you love and allow that love to shine out of you. You will attract more people to love and more people who want to love you.

Don’t worry about the kissing and holding hands at the moment. All of that is not going to seem as important when you get older and you need people to be there for you to support you through the rough times.