Today my friend messaged me that they don't want their sexuality to be mentioned anymore. They're gay, and they came out a year and a half ago. They've always pushed since before they ever came out that they never want to be in a relationship or date, then they came out and that mindset changed for a bit, but now they're saying it again except 10x more aggressively. On top of that they say they wish they hadn't come out because they don't want to hear about it anymore or even be associated with it. They said they hope people assume their ace and aro so they don't have to deal with "people's shit" whatever that means. I asked them if they aren't gay and actually ace and aro, but they said no. The not wanting to date or be in a relationship isn't new, but it was gone for a while, and now it's back tenfold and they've gone from being pretty happy and loud about their sexuality to not wanting to even be associated with it? Should I be worried or try to talk to them? As of right now I kind of brushed it off in my response, they don't seem mad.