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Please help me

Why my mummy shouts so much ??

Why is she like this ???


Let me share today's incident...

I woke up listening to my mom's scoldings ....she was scolding because me and my sister didn't wake up early ............(I don't know why I can't wake up at the alarms sounds , but whenever my eyes are opened I immediately get up from bed because of my parents fear) .............she was shouting like I have murdered someone..............she was so angry ...........and then she started shouting about all our mistakes for which we have received scoldings before ..........and after that abusing us ........(these are becoming like everyday things )........whenever I stood up for myself..I tried to talk with her , she never understands.........she thinks she is always right .............even my father is like this ........... ........


And then my sister she doesn't care for me , she backmouth at parents and she has a lot of friends and especially boys( my mother wants us to stay away from boys , i think because she is protective) ..............she never take me seriously and I feel alone in my family .......... I don't have many friends and I AM IN MIDDLE OF NOWHERE, I have passed my 12th grade amd waiting for COLLEGE ADMISSIONS.




............I don't like this place . I WANT TO LEAVE THIS PLACE AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭



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Re: Please help me

Been there, an advice, whenever they are calm, try to talk to them and tell them how you feel, that you are always afraid of them and how it might improve, ask them for a psychologist to intervene if necessary


If this is not possible and you are still underage, call the police and ask them to stay while you express your thoughts, your parents might be family, but they are also people and everyone makes mistakes, problem is, most people can't see what they are doing wrong if nobody points it out


If you're not underage, stay strong and do your best to go to college and live with roomies, might be a difficult change, but as long as you are trying, you're stronger than most people out there

I am living in India


I can't do any of the things you say .



This is not a very forward country and above all I live in a small city , not even in metropolitan city .......



I will go to college but this Coronavirus has make these things late..





Sorry for my bad english


And thank you for your advice


But I can't call police or take a psychiatrist help ......


AND WHENEVER I TALKED TO THEM THEY START SAYING , ABOUT SPENDING MONEY ON US , AND HOW GIRLS WERE TREATED IN VILLAGES AND MANY MORE HURTFUL THINGS




...😭😭😭😭😭

That's always their secret move, "you owe them so they're right"


If you can, try to use logic, ask them "why" and try to understand why they react the way they do


And keep using that why question until they can't answer anymore, they will eventually use a religion statement or a "because yes" answer


That's when you know they are starting to lose and will start getting defensive, so you have to stop, not by just walking away, but by telling them: "This is starting to feel like a fight, can we please continue later?"


Remember to always remind them before starting to discuss, that "you just want for them to care about you the same way you care about them, so you need to understand"


If a psychologist is not available, try looking for someone who can be there and objectively listen, anybody will do as long as they are in nobody's side


I know it'll be hard, but you'll eventually get through

Nothing will happen ..........AT THE END SHE WILL EITHER START ABUSING OR PLAYING THAT VICTIM'S CARD AND MY FATHER , HE ALWAYS TAKES HER SIDE IF THEY ARE NOT FIGHTING THEMSELVES

Then stay strong!


Trust me that eventually you will see the way, and you'll be able to look back and feel proud of yourself... Feel like you achieved everything you dreamed of, but for that, you need to stay strong


If at any point you see a chance, you can try to follow the tips as well, maybe with different approaches


Otherwise, I send you all the strength I can from here

Thank you so much......



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Girl I feel you I literally just got beat and yelled at and I’m ready to leave ASAP I hate it here too stay strong let’s make it out of here together we will make it happen .......somehow hopefully we’ll idk but we’ll make it work man it keeps telling me I need 300 characters but like is this enough?



much love- anno