my boyfriend and i have been dating for a few months and i just found out that his parents hate me because of my race, they have never met me. they threaten to take his phone away if he talks to me again and i don’t know what to do. should i break up with him? i don’t want to date someone who’s parents are racist and i know it’s not his fault but i just don’t know what i should do. i really love him and want to be in a relationship with him but with his parents like this i don’t think i can. he doesn’t want to breakup and he wants to stay together but hide it from his parents. he tried to hide it from me because he didn’t want to hurt me but i figured it out. now i’m at a loss on what to do. the thought of his parents being racist truly sickens me.