I have been struggling with my sexuality for awhile now not being sure if I am lesbian or bi. Last week I hooked up with a guy and its the first time I have ever gotten with anyone. We have plans to meet up next week but I am still unsure of my attraction to men. I dont want to hurt him but I am so confused and unsure with myself. I cant figure out if I enjoyed it or not, or if I would enjoy it more if it was a different person, boy or girl.