It is all a sham. Everything is. All the codes of moral behavior that we were ever taught of. Everything is. There is no altruism, no kindness no love. Ultimately it all boils down to selfish intents whether concious Or Subconcious. All the weight of good behaviour is holding you down, making you bite the dust. While those who preach but dont practise enough rules you from their elevated plane of self professed morality.