I work all the time. I’m lost. My bf is out of work, I’m supporting us bothme and him fought yesterday he told me that all I give him is shiti told him that I give him more than just shit, in fact, yesterday, I gave him £200 so he didn’t get charged by the bank. I pay for everything currently. But I suppose that doesn’t mean I’m allowed to file out, as he put it, shit. i tried to talk last night. I made chips and gave him a bowl, he says thank you and then nothing all night. I woke up this morning and he wasn’t beside me. still in the house, but no “good morning” when I saw him. I ignored him. I guess he will speak to me next time he needs cash. it got to lunch time, he’s still avoiding me now it’s 1407 and we still have not spoken. I’m ready to jump off the viaduct and I can’t talk to anyone, they all know already, they are bored of me saying it. the more he ignores me, the harder I’m gonna find it to talk back if he ever does let up. It’s almost as if being treated with resentment, harbours mutual resentment!? S/ yeah I dunno. he is going through it, he has been inside for a year and he asked me to ease off when he screws up our argument was due to a previous argument where I told him I was upset when he stopped listening to me. He does this thing where he pretends, then immediately makes a statement outing himself for not listening. Example: I’m talking about groceries and I’ll add something to the list, he will cut me off to add the same exact item... when I brought this up, he denied that it ever happens. fast forward to yesterday, I’m talking about something. I notice he isn’t listening. I calmly try to warrant a response, 3 tries at this. Things like, “ what do you think?” Etc no responseI then calmly say, “ so this is one of those times I’m talking about, I’m just gonna write it down to be clear that I’m not making it up” to which he got upset and asked me to give him a break. That’s fine. I plan to ive been waiting for him to talk when he is ready, cut to a day later and now I’m angry at him. yes it was shitty of me to make a note of it, but I was calm in the process. It had irritated me when you claimed it just didn’t happen, honestly I believe you were actually mad cause you got caught out. Possibly now you don’t want to talk to me cause u know you’re wrong? I love you. But if you don’t like talking to me, I have no use for you in my life.